
My family has a young gene. We are and feel much older than we look. My Mom could be my sister and often has been mistaken for such. I decided I must get it from my Grandparents who seem and act much younger than they are.
Grandma told us that the eye doctor told Grandpa he had pretty good eyes for a 61 year old. They paused and said they had kids who might take offense at that. The doctor said, "How old are you?" He replied, "81." She said, "Well, you've got REALLY good eyes for an 81 year old!"
I'm still amazed that they packed up their car and drove the two days down here from Idaho at their age. I kept calling my parents to ask if they REALLY were coming this time?? They really did and it was so good to see them.
They came with my parents to see Jessica in the primary program. I was playing the piano for it, so technically I was involved as well. Jess amazed everyone by reading her parts all by herself. For 8 kids, they did a fabulous job and we couldn't be more proud of them.
After church, the grandparents came over for dinner. We had a full house and the visit was much too short. If only I didn't have kids and other interuptions. I would have enjoyed sitting around all day and night just chatting with them and enjoying their company. I'm sure their days are numbered although it's hard to believe. They seem just as young and full of energy as they did 30 years ago. It will be a shock and a sad, sad day when either one of them passes on to the other side.
In Sunday school today (the brief ten minutes I was there for) we were talking about Malachi and Elijah. I thought about the hearts of the children turning to their fathers and the fathers to their children. As I sat cherishing the time with mine, I know the feeling. . . I love my family and my roots. I wonder if Grandma and Grandpa feel like roots. I can tell they love their branches. All 7 children plus spouses, 43 Grandchildren plus however many spouses and soon to be 40 Great Grandchildren. They know them all. In fact they have this huge tree in their house with little windows for pictures of their kids and grandkids. . .needless to say it ran out of room for everyone years ago.
Just as they were leaving Grandpa came over and almost with tears in his eyes he hugged me and paid me compliments. I could tell he was proud of me. I'm not so sure I was so deserving, but I'm humbled by it. I've heard this from my other Grandparents as well. Though I sometimes think they see a grander version of the real me, they do inspire me to live a better life and honor their heritage and faith. I want to make them proud. It's nice to hear it and see that they sincerely mean it. I wonder if that's what Malachi means by turning our hearts. . . I'm so blessed to be a twig on this family tree. I hope my children will come to know how blessed they are to share this heritage.
Lily cried as they pulled out of the driveway saying, "Where are they going? I want my Grandpa!" she wasn't ready for them to leave either.
I'm afraid we stayed up a bit late tonight playing and laughing after our visitors had left. How great is it that these relationships will last forever? And someday we won't have to say goodbye?